LETTER
FROM TOVA AKERMAN TO HER UNCLE SOLLY TISKOFSKY1
(30 APRIL
1961)
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Tova Niedzwiecka
(later Akerman)
Radzilow, c.1921 |
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My dear friend,
You will be very
surprised at my writing. First, I shall introduce myself to you.
I am a niece of yours, that is through Krejna's daughter2.
My dear friend, I very much regret that for so long a time we
have been unable to write, though Uncle Meyer3 must
surely have written to you about us. My dear friend, how are
things with you? How is uncle, also you, my dear cousin? I write
that it is high time we should get acquainted, for this is what
is left from our mother, also from you, my dear, and also, my
dear uncle, with your children. As our children are already
grown up and now independent, you'll understand they desire to
see something of the world. For this reason, my son4
will come to you on a visit, so I would ask you to expect him
for he is, after all, your niece's son. I ask that you should
not be annoyed at my request - you know, after all, that when
one wishes to travel, then one turns to friends. I believe you
will be with his arriving and that you will welcome him nicely.
I thank you very much for everything and also await a visit from
you. [You] will see and recognise (become acquainted) with your
family. My son will tell you all the other news and I end my
letter and wish all the best. Your niece with my sister, also
the family. I believe that, this month, he will be with you and
thank you, once again, with many wishes to all my cousins.
Answer me very soon. |
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1 |
Solly Tiskofsky (1889-1965) was born
Zelig Tyszkowski in Radzilow, and his family moved to London in
1901. His late wife, Brajna Kowalska (1891-1956)
was a sister to the Krejna and Meyer mentioned in this letter. |
2 |
Tova was Krejna's eldest
daughter. She was born in Radzilow 1907/8 and died in Israel in 2002. |
3 |
This was Mejer Kowalski, who
was born in Radzilow 1892/3 and moved to Jerusalem c.1924. He died there
aged 103, c.1996. |
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Her son was Amos Akerman,
who was born in 1938/9 and died in 2001. |
This
most noticeable aspect of this letter is the
presumption with which Tova writes. She introduces
herself to an uncle she had almost certainly never met
- he came to England several years before she was
born - and proceeds to tell him that her son will be
coming to stay with him! Solly was 71 and a widower,
and may have been surprised by the sudden
responsibility of hosting a distant relative from
Israel, despite his legendary love of family.
Tova
writes in the typically loving style of a Jewish
mother, referring to everyone in very affectionate
terms, and describes the familiar feelings of a
parent overseeing her child's development and
appetite for exploration.
It is
believed that Amos did visit London in 1961, and
Solly's sister, Lily, and her husband made aliyah
immediately after his visit. The two families
remaining friends in Israel, and Tova and her family
looked after Lily in her old age, after the death of
her husband.
See photos of Tova, her
parents and siblings
See photos of Solly and his
family
See photos of Tova's uncle,
Mejer Kowalski
See photos of Solly's sister
Lily Woliner
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Letter donated by the late Lynda Harvey.
Translation by Reuben Berg. |
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